Safety Stops on First Date
Many women who use online dating services to meet men are very precautious when they are online, but much of that precaution ends on the first date after they've met their date face to face and the date moves to the next level. The main cause for this, as some studies have shown, is due to the closeness women feel to the men they've met, having first had the chance to speak to them on several occasions before meeting them in person.
Most women will go to great lengths to protect their safety and have a variety of methods for screening the men before meeting them or giving them to much information according to one article. Some of the screening techniques include checking the potential date's background and researching online, while other women rely on intuition and gut feelings.
Nevertheless, many women end up sleeping with their internet date on the first real date, largely because they feel they already know the man deeply from their web chats – women feel a personal connection and relationship has already been established and don't see the date, or the intimacy, as a one night stand, although in some cases, that's exactly what it is.
The concept of online personals allows singles to ask questions that are difficult to ask or answer in a face to face meeting. Information about sexual experience, whether or not to use protection or other form of birth control as well as medical histories are often exchanged through the personals services before the encounter as an added method of security. It is often because of these frank discussions and decisions that the intimacy is accelerated when the two people actually meet for their first date.
Regardless of how close you feel to your online dating friend/lover, it's important to remember that it is extensively difficult to know someone whom you've never met and it is still prudent to maintain the 'no sex on the first date' rule when meeting online acquaintances.
Posted by eDatingCentral.com Sep 17, 2007 11:14 am
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