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Getting in Dating ShapeDating again, whether it is after a divorce or long-term relationship, is tough. You wade through the emotions of a breakup and are finally ready to date someone new. But wait…how do you go about it since it seems like so long ago? Where do you start? Val Farmer, a clinical psychologist, offers a wealth of insightful tips to address questions about dating like what's in, what's out and what to do and not to do. Things like don't be desperate, act like yourself, be true to your feelings and don't give up your morals to please someone else. It can be so confusing! To help your dating game start off on the right foot, begin with the basics. When looking for love – again – you need to be proactive. The list of potential dates isn't going to just show up in your mailbox or on your doorstop. You need to search for a date and a mate. Look in places that you frequent, whether it is the bowling alley, the coffee shop or church. Of course, another viable avenue is the online dating scene. And please try not to rule out anyone before you get to know him or her. The greatest tidbit of information offered is that even though this is the instant gratification era, love won't work that way. You have to cultivate a friendship before a relationship can develop full force. Relationships need constant work to cultivate the trust, chemistry and mutual attraction needed to make the relationship go beautifully for the long haul. Have fun with the dating game. Not every date is going to smell like roses and you have to accept that, whether you are male or female. Rejection is only a small part of the game and one that you can use to make you smarter for the next time. Don't take rejection to heart or feel like a failure. Move on to the next game and hope for a win – a mate for life. Posted by eDatingCentral.com Nov 25, 2006 8:00 am Related Online Dating News Articles:
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