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The Fairytale Relationship for Gay Couples
Being a gay man in American society today comes with many different emotions. Things have begun to change. While watching your best girl walk down the aisle, you begin to realize that you may never have the privilege of doing the same. You thought you were doing something special when you became the bridesmaid in her wedding. How exciting it would be for you to be a gay man in the bridal party. However, it only succeeded in making you feel more lost and lonely. Some people are so accepting, while others doesn't want to think of you being together, much less being able to marry and have children. Things actually are changing in American society. There are several states who have accepted and approved the legal union that was fought so hard for and that you had only dreamed about in the past.
There is a common denominator that you can find no matter what kind of couple that you are: love. When you have found a companion that is connected with you on a higher level than anyone else. You want to share your lives together, get married and raise a family together. It is the stuff that dreams are made of. When you find your special someone, you will share a bond that is so strong, that it does not matter what the rest of the world thinks because you are the only ones that exist. It is important that both partners feel this connection with all of their hearts. Marriage is more of a feeling than it is a legally binding agreement. If you find the right mate, you can still be "married" without being recognized by the state that you live in. If you are able to make that happen, it is wonderful. If not, try not to dwell on the subject. Love is love, no matter what the circumstances.
If you have decided that what you have found in a partner is true love, then wanting to have children is a natural emotion for you. Couples with same sex partners also have many options when it comes to raising children. There is adoption, in vitro fertilization, or you can find a surrogate parent willing to carry a child for you. Think about all your options and decide which is best for you and your family. Like any couple, you do want to make sure that you are bringing a child into a stable relationship. It is important to children today to experience a normal life, be nurtured, provided for, and most importantly, loved. If you and your mate can bring this to a child, then you should go for it. Life is life, love is love, and happiness is priceless.
Posted by eDatingCentral.com Jul 29, 2008 4:22 pm
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