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Avoiding Disastrous RelationshipsWhen you place your hand on a hot stove and get burned, you learn that putting your hand on the hot stove is wrong and that you will be hurt. However, people who seem to have no problem learning that lesson, find it difficult to apply the same logic to their dating lives. Often we see singles pursuing the same person over and over again even when faced with the irrefutable evidence that their dating partner is not treating them right. Why do so many people choose bad relationships over time on their own? When it comes to matchmaking, is being with someone, anyone, better than being alone? When you take a look at the number of single people who continuously go back to a relationship that was failing the first time around, you begin to wonder why these folks can't simply wait for a better match to come along. Everyone knows the wisdom of learning to enjoy your own company before you share your company with someone else, but no one seems to put it into practice. Not to sound like an eHarmony's advice, but the takeaway here is to find a truly suitable match, one should consider taking some time alone and learned the value of one's company and learned how to love oneself first. No relationship is worth continuous abuse and bad behavior. Even if you love your partner with all of your heart, you must realize that your partner cannot love you back if they are mistreating you. Everyone deserves someone who treats them with respect and appreciation. A person, who hurts you and abuses you, whether that abuse is emotional or physical, does not deserve your time. Spend some time alone and enjoy it. It is possible to enjoy a solitary life if you put it into a different perspective. It is not a sign that you are unworthy of love if you are alone. It is a sign that you value your own time enough to wait for the right person to come into your life. Posted by eDatingCentral.com Nov 25, 2008 7:29 am Related Online Dating News Articles:
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